What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it?
Get confidence,
To go to Granbury Texas,
Confront my half sister,
My family abuser,
Get a lawyer,
Retrieve my mom’s ashes,
Sue Diana for everything she has left,
Prove to the world who she really is,
Clear my name of the filth she dumped on it,
Make my living ,
Breathing family see the horrors mom and I withstood and mom and Ellen my kid sister paid the highest toll for,
It cost them their lives!
Get back my family,
Be able to brush the hair out of their eyes,
Then achieve goals,
Place mom’s ashes where she wanted them,
By her mom and dad in Spencer Iowa’s cemetery,
Get back my grandma Lottie’s paintings,from Randy Gene Lovitt in Spencer,Iowa,
And the money Diane got when she stole and sold dad’s mom’s engagement ring the one dad gave to mom as her wedding ring,
Get all the bastards to see my dad never beat my mom when he was mad I was his target.
So Diana’s biggest lie is that Dad beat mom¹. Diana remolded and redistributed this lie.Its on the near sixty pages of lies she fed Iowa’s most brain dead Department of Iowa Human Services! I would see that they all were fired they know nothing about the real monsters in families like how to identify narcissists. Narcissists I know everything about them from first hand experiencing their hate.
Diana Lee my older half sister was one all my life! Everything I had she destroyed as she killed and murdered my younger sister and mom. Seems no one else cares but I care!
How can I die my name is still soiled and my mom’s ashes are still kept prisoner by her abuser! Diana told mother one day you will never return to Iowa!
Yet June 3rd two thousand and eighteen after I had written on my blogg that I was going to go and see my younger sister Ellen Beth Heike Mathis cuz I was going to take my younger sister back from the dark side! Diana had brought mom home to Iow in her grandson’s RV Robert John Cook.
Mother had gotten a cat replacement.That was Diana’s pay for removing me from Cub Lake and telling all my breathing family that mom was so hurt by me that she removed me from her Will²!
Another lie! I’m sitting in my home in Quasqueton,Iowa,because mother Marian D.Bittinger Heike never removed me from her Will! I got a third of my mother’s property it was done through decent lawyers not Michael Rohr my blood cousin. Diana’s who was an adopted kid! Who at eight years old soiled my grand dad’s name because mom was going to get their attention dad took her to introduce her to his family in Shawno, Wisconsin. Diana called grandpa a pedophile, got Diana the little narcissist exactly what you wanted all the attention! And mom got to look like a schmuck in front of her new sister-in-laws she told them grandpa was pedophile!
My aunts knew that was a lie. That lie made mom look stupid and small.
I drug a box of books to Ellen’s garage right by the big RV that belonged to Robert from Texas. Diana lied again she called the Allamakee County Sheriff and got two sheriff’s on lies to Ellen’s home. Diana is so fearful that what Ellen and I could do against her together that she had to toss a wrench Diana had to do whatever she had to stop us from talking again.⁴
In the window of the RV was mom’s new car mom’s new cat. Diana had murdered Rusty mother’s long-haired white Himalayan with orange in his face Rusty was meant to die and so Diana killed him.
In October two fourteen when Diana stuck her fist in our eighty-six year old mom’s face and screamed at mom.‘You have Nothing of value; You have no right to lock your doors!’ It was that summer mom had awake to find Diana in her room digging through her property in mom’s bedroom while mom napped.
Mother would get aggravated if I locked either front or back doors .I had a huge can filled with walnuts in front of the inside back door .I moved all dad’s guns so No one could walk in our front door and slaughter us while we slept with dad’s guns they were all found loaded by the Allamakee County sheriff’s Department December two fourteen. Also public record
Footnote:
1.It was her father (Diana Lee’s) that beat and abused mom not mine. Not (Leon Norbert Heike) And no one cared to seek the truth! Mom divorce (Diana’s father in 1952)Diana was a year and a half in California because when she was pregnant with Diana he beat her and he kicked mother.Marian could stand no more. When Diana was a year and a half and mom divorced the son if a butch,Diana’s dad .had a right .Diaba had no guts to tell the truth narcissists don’t. My dad wasn’t perfect,he was an alcoholic the children in the end pay the highest price for the parent’s pain.
My dad carried the scars of dad who had been in World War I, whose job as a first sergeant in the Medical Corps was defined was to seek and find his comrades at 22 in the trenches in Flanders,France and retrieve dead and wounded friends.
Dad Dr.L.N.Heike carried his own army scars. In nineteen forty six dad enlisted in the United States Army,p during WWII dad was still in high school. All young man are always taught War is an adventure. Like all young men of his era Lee wanted his piece of the action. Dad’s company was sent to Hiroshima. I had shared my beautiful, horrible photographs my dad had give me with my godson Daniel, Daniel Eric Mathis of Waukon,Iowa he threw them on his closet floor with no concern because he had been told that Dad(his grandpa had beat mom) that’s a fucking lie. Diana told everybody that I couldn’t wait for Dad to die so I could beat mom too! No one cared! I took care of my mom since I was as I was 9 years old. I stay with Mom as much as I could so that nothing would happen to her. Nothing ever happened to mother until Diana took her after 2 1/2 years of gaslighting. Ten times a day Diaba tore mom’s heart out! Mother,the gentle sole would cry ‘Val why doesn’t Diana stop? I’m her mother! Diana badgered her. There was a wat finally we could see who was calling.I paid for the internet and the phone. We could finally see who was calling to terrorize mom. I had all the proof that Mediacom had all the proof of what Diana was doing and no one cared!
I hate to sleep! I still hear about crying! I wake up and I hear crying!
I was 56 years old guy had done it for 2 and 1/2 years gaslighting persistently calling and badgering mother everyday trying to get her to move from her home (mom would say no I’m not leaving my home! I’m not leaving my family my friends!)
(What is Gaslighting I was just asked last week?) https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/what-is-gaslighting-in-relationships
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Seventy times a week. I gave Human Services blow by blow of what you did to us and they didn’t care! how is it that people who seem to think that they’re the ones that have the right to care about everybody care nothing about anybody!
2. I put ten grand down on my home with inherited money from a will Diana told everybody I wasn’t part of! Also proof of Diana’s lies!
3. The name of the bomb that dropped on Hiroshima!
4. 6/3/2018 there was a record made recorded in the Allamakee County Sheriff Department as well as whatever lie Diana told them that got two deputies to come to Ellen’s home and how dangerous and Iowa gay poet was! October at 2:14 I should have cut her heart out with a spoon and dumped her in the William Ferrings sink hole! I only promise I wasn’t the monster she painted me to be. Diana will rule the day she killed me twice on that day December 3rd 2:14 she’s going to wish with her last breath that she succeeded.
Val Whitewolf 