Describe a family member.
My mom,
Born November 4th 1927,
Worked in DeKalb and Des Moines,
Vacationed in Biloxi Mississippi 1955,
Met the love of her life Don Bender,
A player Don was,
Mom got the old routine my wife doesn’t understand me,
I sure his wife understood him way too well,
After mom and her friend went back to Des Moines,
Mom received a package of the movies Don and Mom recorded my mom’s 3-day weekend vacation,
And word that Don had broken his neck when he Dove off the pier in Biloxi,
sounds unbelievable I found out years later it was to unbelievable to be true !
Don had lived to the ripe old age of 79,
Don Bender lived in Bend Oregon,
When it was possible to make those tapes into VHS she did,
Marian had had a daughter Diana Lee with her first husband the wife beater she divorced him when Diana was a year and a half,
Like wife beating husband their daughter is a narcissist monster,
Mom married my dad July 1st 1956,
Lee N Heike a doctor of chiropractic,
their first home was in Lorenz Iowa,
Diana nagged dad to adopt her so he did,
The little family lived in Loren’s till Diana was 18 she then married the young man who got her pregnant John Cook,
Valerie was born March 10th 1958,
Follow 3 years later by her little sister Ellen April 11th 1961,
1968 little family moved to Northern Howard, Wisconsin, for a year .
Dad had gotten in financial difficulty and took her years to dig out of the hole intended bar in at night and laid carpet during the day ,
until dad died and Mom could only say the only time she was very proud of Dad was when he worked his tail off to get out of debt,
Children never need to hear what one parent thinks of another,
Mother was middle child Clarence Ward Bittinger and Lottie Henrietta Starkey Bittinger, they lived in Spencer Iowa,
Mother like her mother was an empath, generous and outgoing and love to laugh and sing ,
Mom’s heart was broken one night Ellen didn’t get home till 2:00 in the morning and I had a big fight in the kitchen,
Ellen was drunk at 17 mother had tried to reprimand her and out of her mouth came words and Frozen the air,
‘When you sing you make my ears bleed!”
what a w**** little f***** that’s 17 year old girl was,
mom never say in church anymore,
Mom never say driving down the road,
mother used to sing to me or else work she never did that either or to her grandbabies,
She had broken Mom’s heart,
the oldest daughter’s nurses her youngest daughter is a bully,
I’m sure where everybody is now after being poisoned by her eldest daughter with codeine it took Diana five years to kill her mother,
5 years I wasn’t allowed to see my mom I care for my mom since others 9 years old and a nurse’s pig like me on to Elder Abuse with unfounded unproven lies!
The woman of top was my mom.Marian D Heike.The house was our house in Waukon Iowa.
Val Whitewolf 