Write about a few of your favorite family traditions. Holidays were my mom, Church wish for God, Mother would clean and cook, My kid sister did whatever she wanted, Dad sat in a chair, I’m sure that’s not what he did when he was young at home, I hope that’s not what he did, GrandmaContinue reading “Traditions”
Category Archives: Mom
Self love
Can you share a positive example of where you’ve felt loved? Sorry like a friend of mine in Chicago data I’m going to opt out of this I have no food until Wednesday next. Only cat food, I have is hard crunchies. Unlike the rest of the country who got new insurance card that allowsContinue reading “Self love”
As dad called her ‘Mother Marian’
What snack would you eat right now? Mother Marion, I miss everything she made with love, Would gladly eat anything she made if she would just come back, I would even drudgingly eat the liver and onions that I thought were horrible, Don’t bother looking out drudgingly it’s a Val, But I could go forContinue reading “As dad called her ‘Mother Marian’”
Being me
What could you do differently? like grass it’s job it’s destiny let Kermit the frog is green except in drought then its brown it follows its course it’s not a horse it’s job is grass when I fall outside I follow my ass you all do what we are grass waves even in it shortnessContinue reading “Being me”
Smells
What makes you feel nostalgic? Smiles no not smiles smells, Yesterday I was missing my mom to tears, Has been three years, Mom always wore lavender, Smells are connected with our senses and our memories, Sometimes ghosts are known for being where they are because of the scent of rose, When I was in 7thContinue reading “Smells”
fish gots swim Bird’s got to fly
My mom Marian D.Bittinger Heike, Used to sing that song all the time I’m not sure the name but that was one of the lines, Until that fateful night, My baby sister’s 17th year, Late getting home, Drunk is a skunk, Ellen broke Mom’s heart, tell Mom that when she sang, It made her earsContinue reading “fish gots swim Bird’s got to fly”
Never so glad
Years ago, After mom passed, Mom showed her true colors, Forced to live with my narcissistic half sister, A victim of Stockholm Syndrome, Made by a true monster of the Heike family to remove me from my grandad’s property , My half sister by mom’s first husband a wife beater literally, But my mom wasContinue reading “Never so glad”
American{Chapter 1,Heike’s my family}
On mom’s side twelveth generation, Of that fifth Generation Iowan, Louis Starkey ,Waterville,Iowa, family all Norweign, came to Iowa before it was a state,1846,settled in Waterville in Allamakee County, Louis was an Iowan farm boy, Fell in love with a girl from Winnishiek,County whose last name was Burgeson,they wed and moved to Lane ,South DakotaContinue reading “American{Chapter 1,Heike’s my family}”
After thought
What’s the hardest decision you’ve ever had to make? Why? In an instance in October of two fourteen after two and a half years if my half sister Gaslighting our eighty six year old mom. In an instant Diana was standing over mom’s Easy Boy with her finger in mom’s face yelling at the topContinue reading “After thought”
Slander
Narcissistic family or friends or other lie about you, Place you onto Elder Abuse, No money, No help, Lies grow, Find no jobs in caretaking for elderly ladies, Lies nail you to the goody to shoes cross then stone you on the words of a liar, Not food to eat, Church bells ring for theContinue reading “Slander”
Val Whitewolf 